Questions

What women ask about affair recovery coaching.

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Getting started

Does my husband need to be involved?

No. You can start on your own. He’s welcome to join the work when he’s ready, and his participation can help, but your recovery doesn’t depend on it.

I haven’t fully decided whether to stay. Is this for me?

This work is built for women who have decided to stay or deeply want to. If you’re still deciding, Brian will tell you that up front and point you toward help that fits where you are.

What if the affair is still going on?

Then this isn’t the right time. Recovery work needs the affair to be over. If you’re in that situation, it’s still worth reaching out, and Brian can talk with you about next steps.

The affair was years ago. Is it too late?

No. Many women feel stuck long after discovery because time alone rarely resolves betrayal. This work is designed for exactly that place.

Coaching and therapy

Is this therapy?

No. This is coaching and education. It doesn’t diagnose or treat anything, and it isn’t a substitute for therapy or crisis care. See the full disclaimer.

What if I need more than coaching?

Brian will tell you and help you find the right kind of support near you.

Do you take insurance?

No. Coaching isn’t a billable clinical service, so there’s no insurance or diagnosis involved. It also means you can work with Brian from any state.

Is what I share kept private?

Brian keeps what you share private. Coaching conversations don’t carry the same legal protections as therapy, and the privacy policy explains how information is handled.

Logistics

How much does it cost?

Cost is discussed directly with Brian, once he understands your situation and whether coaching is the right fit.

Is it virtual?

Yes. Coaching happens by video, so you can work with Brian from anywhere in the United States.

What about cancellations and refunds?

Those details are in the coaching agreement you receive before you start, so you can read them before committing to anything.