Affair recovery coaching
You decided to stay after the affair. This is one-on-one coaching with Brian Jones to help you stop living around what happened and start building what comes next.
Recovery here means more than talking things through. These are the five shifts the coaching is built to move you through, in order.
Every marriage is different, and individual results vary.
Staying stops feeling like something that happened to you. It becomes a choice you made and can stand behind.
The affair takes its place in your history and stops setting the agenda for every day.
Less checking and less replaying. Your attention comes back to the life you’re actually living.
Inside the relationship and outside it. Your sense of yourself stops rising and falling with his phone.
Closeness becomes something you choose, with clear agreements about what your marriage runs on now.
Brian believes relationships can survive infidelity. He also believes a strong relationship needs two strong individuals, each clear about who they are and what they want.
That’s why this work starts with you. When you’re decisive about who you are and what you want, your decisions turn into actions, and your actions change your life.
The structure comes from the FERNS Method, which Brian developed over a decade of work with couples: feelings and fears, expectations, reactivity, needs, and sensitivities.
Your coach
Brian has spent 11 years working with couples, has helped more than 100 of them, and created the FERNS Method. Affair recovery coaching is one-on-one with Brian from your first conversation onward.
This is coaching and education. It isn’t therapy or counseling and isn’t a substitute for crisis care. If what you’re carrying calls for a clinician, Brian will tell you and help you find one.