How to start

Four steps, and a real conversation in the middle.

We take a small number of couples at a time, so the application is a genuine filter rather than a formality. It takes about six minutes and one partner can fill it in.

01  Read
02  Apply
03  Blueprint Call
04  Start

Before you apply

Who you'll be talking to.

Brian is a licensed mental health counselor who developed the F.E.R.N.S. Method over a decade of couples work. Emily leads the coaching program. One of them will be on your Blueprint Call — you can say in the application which you'd prefer.

Brian and Emily Jones You'll speak with Brian or Emily45 minutes, both partners, no charge

Step two

The application.

About six minutes. We ask about your situation, what you've already tried, and what you want to be different in twelve weeks. Nothing you write here is shared with anyone outside the practice.

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Before you apply: the Blueprint Call requires both partners. If your partner doesn't yet know you're looking at this, that's common — but the conversation with them comes before the call with us.

Step three

What happens on the Blueprint Call.

Forty-five minutes with Emily, both of you on the call. It is not a sales call with a discovery label on it, and you will not be asked to decide anything while you're on it.

  • 1

    We map the pattern. What the recurring conversation is, and where it reliably goes wrong.

  • 2

    We locate the step. Nearly every stuck couple is stuck at a specific one. Knowing which is useful even if you never enroll.

  • 3

    We tell you honestly whether this fits. Including when it doesn't, and what would.

Questions before applying?

You can just ask — we read every message ourselves.

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